I recently joined another website, which I will not mention by name. It’s always fun being the guy on the block! I have met some really interesting guys however I think each present and interesting challenge to my boundaries. 

The first and the most surprising to me is a guy who is only 24. I have never dated anyone younger than me, I’ve always been the young one. I have yet to meet him, but have chatted with him on the phone, sent more than 1 hundred text messages, I’m sure. and talked online for hours, in addition to email. We have most of the same interests and very similar sensibilities and as cliche’ as it sounds he projects a personality beyond his years. This is certainly a first for me. 

Next is a guy that I have exchanged a few message with over the course of several months. He is from another site by the way. We finally had the opportunity to talk on the phone and he made a very good first impression. We are supposed to spend some time together next week if our schedules work out. He is incredibly attractive…. at least according to his photo. The way this guy challenges my boundaries however is that he works in a church and is a religious person by his own admission. I know that I usually butt heads with religious types in the regular world but willing to be open minded about him and see. Im a sucker for blue eyes, I can’t help it.

As for Mr. Z and Giggles — Well Im thinking that is going to have to be just friendship. I really like both guys but there are just some core issues that I can not transcend. Z is far to stuck on complaining about his age at 46, what’s he gonna be like at 56?! and Mr. Giggles is just to emotionally unstable, and thats a story to be told some other time.