Chatting online is always an interesting thing, and tonight is no exception. I have included below a part of a chat transcript of a conversation I had with a guy who obviously did not like to hear I was seeing someone and not him. — Mind you, I am not, nor ever given the impression of any sort of exclusivity to anyone.

Him: So you are dating someone. Why the fuck did you wait till now to say something

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Me: For this very reason

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Him: oh really so you date one guy send me your nude pics real nice and to think i really thought you might be different from others but your not

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Me: Seriously? Ok, well, to clarify… I had not even met or talked to this this guy yet when I sent those to you, I met him on my birthday, not that it matters at this point.

Apparently you had some premature expectation of me even though we had never met, which is not really fair to either of us. Now I’m being judged with a trite cheap shot and placed in a “like everyone else” category for being honest with you, your kidding right? How’s that working for you?

I would have been more than happy to have gone out with you, but you kept talking about sex and what you wanted to do with me which left an impression that is what you were more interested in. Which is not what I want, for which I was very clear about. I though if I kept chatting with you and got to know each other better maybe I would become more confident that was not the case. Maybe it was my fault for sending those photos, I should have known better.

You have made it pretty clear that you have formed a pretty solid negative opinion of me that is based on 1 phone conversation and a few chats and I can’t do anything about that since you will believe what you want.

I’m a single dude, man, I date, and until I commit to someone I’ll continue to date whom ever I want, when I want and will not feel obligated to explain to anyone what I do or don’t do. Especially to someone I don’t even know. Cut me some slack.

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Him: you know nothing about honesty
don’t write me a book bitch

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Me: Is that how you always talk to people? Damn