Atlanta is without a doubt one of the the gayest cities in the country. You can get as easily picked up at a Kroger in Midtown as you can at the Heretic on a Friday or Saturday night! Sex in this city (as with others I’m sure) is always on tap! Effort not required, just show up.

Does that leave room for the boys looking for more? Possible, I’m sure. Level of difficulty, very high. When you live in a city with gay male whores, weeding out the committals from the committing kind becomes a formidable challenge. With out careful self observation you can quickly become the thing you despise most, the jaded. And not just jaded, but projection jaded. These are the boys who project their disdain and distrust for every man before giving him a change. Another common breed of gay man in Atlanta is the standards gay. These are the boys who have such high standards and requirements that the most wonderful person could be staring them right in the face but because of where they live, or what they drive makes them unworthy.

These 2 groups are just the tip of the iceberg, an iceberg I dub the “perpetually single”. Anyone falls into this group that is single not by choice but single because everyone else has problems and no one has been worthy.

Then there are the reclusive. These are the men who want love, they are hopeless romantics, but they are no where to be found. Not online, not in a bar and no where near midtown. So how do you find these men. Well I intend to find out.

Since rejoining the brotherhood of single gay men a few months ago, I have quickly learned the game is hardcore and littered with emotionally batter boys. As I take this journey in finding a man that makes me happy as I do him, I will be chronicling each with as much detail as possible.

Wish me luck – and Happy Hunding

-AD